We were blessed with Jackie and Josh coming over to celebrate Izzy's birthday with us. Jackie and John created such a fun atmosphere with their attention to details that for those of us who's birthday it wasn't still had an sensational time.
What I want to remember about Izzy over this past year:
1. We are in the midst of puberty! With this comes a desire to be treated older while holding onto her childhood. You want to stay up later than your siblings. However you still cannot sleep without silky or teddy. In addition, you are interested in learning more about the changes going on with your body and ask many nights if we can read more from the book I bought you.
2. You still have an anxious temperament though are getting better at using the coping skills taught to you. You often find another technique in fencing beside retreating or reposting. Your nerves got the best of you with trying skiing outside of ski school. However in a short amount of time, you overcame this and thoroughly enjoyed the mountain.
3. You have one of the biggest, caring hearts. You often think of someone else's feeling and want to include anyone including teachers, classmates and even siblings. I've watched you help orchestrate play when your siblings have play dates. You are becoming aware of social circles at school and how feelings can be hurt including yours when someone tries to break apart/into those circles.
4. You define yourself by theatre and fencing. You are excited for trying out for the school play and hope to get a larger, leading part. You often sing in the car to "practice" knowing you will have to sing a solo in the play. Your fencing skills are improving all the time. This past tournament you felt proud from fighting in the elimination round only to loose by one point. That was disappointing for you. However, you are now asking to go to practice more often next year in hopes of honing your skills.
5. You are your own self and comfortable with who you are. Sometimes you were the oddest combination of socks to school but you do so with pride. You were not phased by wearing headgear to school as you didn't want to wear it at night. You don't always follow the main stream of activity choices at school or in your after school program. Your circle of friends remain the same and are very similar to you in having slight oddities. Those core friendships make you solid in knowing who you are. I can't wait to see what comes next for you!
This was Izzy's favorite present. Her coach, J.D., mentioned that the fencing masks could be airbrushed. A quick google search showed many of the masked had very intimidating paintings. As her cat Coco is one of her treasured possessions, this seemed quite fitting. Google came handy again when locating airbrush artists. Roscoe was up for the challenge as he was "bored" of t-shirts. He went above and beyond what I imagined.
John and I attempted to incorporate a "10" inside her cake. What we didn't expect is for the one and zero to float up on the cake batter. In the end, it tasted great. And we were surprised that the "10" could be seen.